Weekend Wrap Up

Toothpaste for dinner
Our washer/dryer combo has been slowly dying for awhile now.  It’s a combo washer/dryer all in one condo unit that looks like this. The washing machine basket is tiny, and won’t hold much. And over the years, it’s been slowly pushed out of whack, until now, if you try to wash two pairs of jeans at once, it sounds like it is going to try to force its way through the laundry room door, down the hall, and out our bedroom window. Our bed is right in front of the window, so we’re against this prospect. We had someone come out a few months ago to service it, but he said it’s too far gone, and repairs would be expensive and not last very long. So, we went out on the weekend after Thanksgiving, and took advantage of the sales, and ordered a new, FULL SIZED washer and dryer. VERY exciting.

Our little condo is old (30-something) and set up for the all in one unit, so we had to hire someone to come and put in another outlet in our laundry room, so we would have a plug for the washer, as well as one for the dryer. On Friday, the people came from Sears to deliver our new set (within their window, I’ll give them props), but the cord was not long enough to reach from the back of the dryer to the 220 outlet. They suggested that we might go to Home Depot, and try to buy a longer cord.

Saturday was baking day, the day the family comes together and we each bake one or two types of yummy cookies, and then we all take home a sampler. It’s a fun day of laughter, cookies, and KFC. On our way out to baking day, we picked up the suggested items from Home Depot.

Then on Sunday morning, Sears came back, and we hoped they would be able to hook up our new, beautiful, energy and water efficient units, which look like this. They can hold jeans, blankets, comforters, and towels (perhaps not all at once, but still, one at a time would be a vast improvement over what we have now). I want to go to there. Turly. But, sadly, they said that they were not authorized to use the wiring we had bought at Home Depot, that it would cancel our warranty. Um, no. I want full warranty, especially after our stove had problems WEEKS after the one year warranty ran out. Yes, it’s true.

So, this morning, we have the handyman coming out to put in a second 220 plug, where the wire from the dryer can reach it. If he does that, and we cannot for some reason get our washer/dryer unit in there, and close the door, I will be very sad. I will cry. I might even pout and be a pain in the butt for a bit. But I’ll get over it, and go pick something else out, something that I don’t really want, something that will fit. Because real life has a way of slapping you in the face and giving you perspective over petty appliance problems, no?

On Sunday, I was supposed to go to Stockton, to take my Grandma and Great Aunt to lunch at Red Lobster (their favorite) for scampi and cheese toast. Saturday, we came home from baking day to discover that Grandma had been having chest pains and had to spend the night in the hospital, so lunch was off. Scary. My Grandma is the best Grandma EVER, and though you may think your Grandma superior, you would be wrong. I am in no way ready to lose her. So, instead of going to lunch on Sunday, I just went to visit, (thankfully she was home already by the time I got there) and it turns out that she did not have a second heart attack, as we had feared. She had high potassium levels in her blood, which they treated with medication, and sent her home. Thank God. I am so grateful that she is OK. She looked wonderful and in no way as wiped out as I expected, not like I would look if I had spent the night in the hospital, and the doctors told her she has at least another 10 years left in her (she’s 85). Whew. I don’t want to lose her in 10 years even, but I’ll deal with that when I have to. I’m not ready yet. We laughed at our own family jokes, cried a bit about my mom, and over all had a nice visit.

So that was our weekend. Sweet (cookies!), stupid (appliance drama), scary (Grandma scare), and full of thankfulness and relief.

How was your weekend?

(by the way, it’s six months today since I lost my mom. How can it have gone so swiftly, and yet have lasted forever at the same time? I’ll admit that it’s still confusing to me that she’s gone.)

10 Comments

  • Starshine

    Wow. What a weekend. If you need permission from anyone to take the day off today, you can tell them that I told you to! 🙂

    I’m so glad your Grandma is okay, and also that you had such a good visit.

    Six months…I can’t believe how quickly it has passed.

    Sending you love and hugs!

    xo

  • Ted

    It was truly a weekend of highs and lows — but I’m thrilled everything turned out okay with your grandmother! 🙂

    Right now Mr. Handyman is almost finished with the wiring and installing the duct for the dryer. Looks like I’ll be giving him a hand as he pushes the unit back into laundry closet.

  • Autumn's Mom

    I hope it fits!! I believe I have a crappy washer. Clothes gets all tangled and stretched in mine. I’m sorry I ever offered it to you. I take it back, cuz it sucks. That’s great that Grandma didn’t have a heart attack. I wish her a speedy recovery.

  • C

    J, I have been thinking of you this week and then Hubby called me to tell me that Little One received a present from California! I was totally surprised when he read who it was from!

    Thank you so much for thinking of our baby girl 🙂 You are so kind, thoughtful, sweet, and all of that good stuff. Thank you 🙂

    I hope you are doing okay. I read your last post and thought of how I felt when my grandfather passed away…and then my aunt (whom I was very close to) died shortly after. For my granddad, I was living and working overseas and never had the chance to say goodbye. I felt like I didn’t have any closure. It was a hard time for me. Plus, at the time I had a lot of personal things going on that made things really hard to deal with.

    That was almost ten or eleven years ago, and though I don’t know if I’d say I’m totally healed from the loss of my loved ones, I can say that it does get a little easier. There are days when the feelings suddenly come rushing back and I get weepy and emotional, but I try to remember the times we did share together. It’s hard, and getting used to the fact that your mom isn’t with you anymore will take time. It sounds so weird to say what I just said. Like, how do you get used to something like that? Can one ever?

    Sending hugs your way. XOXO

  • patois

    I’m so glad your grandma is all right and that you got to spend time with her. I never wanted to give up my grandma either. (Even if she wasn’t as good as yours. But she was. So there.)

  • (un)relaxeddad

    Our machine is about to go – makes appalling noises these days…Electrics. Pain. We have a set of lights that keep fusing out – no discernible reason and various handimen have confirmed that there’s nothing wrong but still…