• Kin

    Kin ~ Tayari Jones Annie and Niecy are ‘cradle friends’, and have known each other for as long as they can remember. Both are orphans in the Jim Crow South, Annie raised by her grandmother, Niecy by her Aunt Irene. Niecy’s mother was murdered by her father (who then committed suicide) when she was an infant, while Annie’s mother deserted her and went to Memphis. Early on, Niecy’s Aunt Irene tells her that she is the luckier of the two girls, because her mother is gone and there is no hope of finding her, while Annie lives with the idea of perhaps finding her and reclaiming the maternal love she…

  • The Things We Never Say

    The Things We Never Say ~ Elizabeth Strout Loneliness does not come from having no people around you. Instead, it stems from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to you, or from holding certain views that others find inadmissible. ~ Carl Jung This is the epigraph of Elizabeth Strout’s The Things We Never Say, and it perfectly encapsulates the novel. Artie Dam is depressed. He is a middle-aged high school History teacher in Massachusetts with a love for sailing. His best friend, Flossie, has moved away to be closer to her daughter after the death of her husband, Reginald, whom she describes as an asshole whom she…

  • Friday Randomness

    This has been a lovely, relaxing week. I’m up against my PTO cap, which means that if I don’t take some paid time off, I will stop accruing. My company drastically lowered our cap a few years ago (it was admittedly pretty high), and when they did that I didn’t accrue any time for about a year and a half. I don’t want that to happen again. So, I took the week off. We have July 2nd and 3rd as company holidays this year, so I get 5 days off but only have to take 3 vacation days. Or in this case, staycation days. What, one might ask, did I…

  • Friday Randomness

    I missed a week of randomness. I had things to say, but somehow couldn’t muster myself to come here and say them. So here goes, lots of drivel ahead. June 15th was the anniversary of my mother’s death. Here she is in 1960, a picture for a calendar she made for my Grandma for a Christmas gift, where she dressed up in different costumes for each month. She was 18 and found herself to be hilarious. I find her hilarious too. These anniversaries are tough, and her loss is tied closely with the loss of my dad too. When she died in 2008, it was Father’s Day, so when I…

  • The Calamity Club

    The Calamity Club ~ Katheryn Stockett Birdie Calhoun is visiting her sister, Frances, in Oxford, Mississippi, hoping to borrow money from her sister’s new husband to save the family farm. It’s 1933 and things have not gone well, and she needs money to pay the property taxes. Frances has married into a wealthy family and is a social climber. She volunteers at the local orphanage, where she tries to ingratiate herself with the chairwoman, Garnett Pittman, who runs the place with a cruel, uncaring hand. Meg Lefleur is one of the girls at the orphanage. Her mom left one day to go to the store and never came home. Garnett…

  • Good People

    Good People ~ Patmeena Sabit The Sharaf family are an immigrant success story. The parents came to the US from Afghanistan and settled in Virginia, just outside of Washington, DC, and through intelligence and hard work, became extremely wealthy. Rahmat is a successful businessman, and Maryam is his wife and stay at home mother to their four children. The parents have dreams that their eldest son, Omer, will be a world class surgeon, but he has other plans and doesn’t even want to go to community college. Now the dreams are pinned to their teenaged daughter, Zorah, becoming a lawyer. Zorah is an excellent student, and straddles the fine line…

  • Lost Lambs

    Lost Lambs ~ Madeline Cash Bud and Catherine Flynn’s marriage is in trouble. She has decided the solution is an open marriage and to have a neighbor take nude photos of her, which she places around the house. Bud sleeps in his car most nights. Neither of them really know how to parent. Neither parent cooks, so the family lives off of take out and there is rarely much to eat in the fridge, the downstairs bathroom is moldy and the faucet doesn’t work, and their 3 teenaged daughters are troubled. Abigail, 17, has ended her affair with the high school art teacher, and is now dating a twenty-something military…

  • They All Fall in Love at the End

    They All Fall in Love at the End ~ Haili Blassingame Catherine “Cat” St. Clair is a 20 something graduate student, living with her parents in Washington DC, and hoping to finish her MFA within 10 years. She takes one class a semester because that’s all she can afford with her scholarship and money from her part time job at a sausage restaurant. Cat is working on a semi-autobiographical novel about her parents’ shitty marriage and her life thus far. She has a boyfriend, Jay, who is a school teacher in California. Cat wants an open relationship, she feels trapped by monogamy. She feels like Jay (Not Jay per se,…

  • Five Things Friday

    Happy Friday everyone! Quick Friday 5 today. I don’t have pictures for everything, so I am going to pepper this post with some random photos of suburban California flowers. I don’t remember where I heard about this book, but it was in my TBR on Libby, so when I found myself looking for something to listen to, I gave it a try. DNF. I do not DNF often, especially with audiobooks. I realized that I was about 30 percent in, and I just could not care less what happened next. It’s a western tale, about a Union soldier after the Civil War on the hunt for the man who killed…

  • Smoked Salmon Tahini Bowls

    One morning after I finished my yoga video via YouTube, one of the videos recommended to me was from the Kitchen Doctor, detailing some meals that he likes to make and pack for high protein, high fiber, nutrient dense lunches. The link is to the video, where he talks about how he likes to have ingredients in various categories, that he combines to make meals. Think whole grains, core protein, greens, extra veg, extra protein, and dressings. He made 3 combinations*, and we tried them last week. We liked all of them, but the Smoked Salmon Tahini Bowls were our favorite, and we had them again yesterday**. In the video,…

  • Gray After Dark

    Gray After Dark ~ Noelle West Ihli Miley is an Olympic biathlete whose aspirations were crushed by a horrible accident. She dreams of getting back to her sport, and is planning to spend the summer working at a remote mountain resort lodge, where she will use her spare time to recover and train both physically and mentally. Her coworker, Wes, warns her about going off on her own, and encourages her to carry bear spray. A few years prior, another worker went missing, and all that was recovered were her bloody clothes. Miley isn’t worried, she knows that most of the bears in the area are black bears, so though…

  • The Favorites

    The Favorites ~ Layne Fargo Katarina (Kat) Shaw and Heath Rocha are childhood sweethearts from the Midwest. Heath is ann orphan, and Kat’s father takes him in. After the father dies, Kat and Heath are left at the hands of her abusive alcoholic brother. Kat dreams of becoming an Olympic ice dancer, and Heath is down for that, because he’s obsessed with Kat and will do whatever she wants. They run off to California to train with a world famous former Olympian, Sheila Lin, and her twin children, Garret and Bella. Things happen, Heath broods, Kat obsesses about skating and winning. The Favorites goes back and forth between a documentary…

  • Power Ballad

    Rick (Paul Rudd) is an American living in Ireland, where he sings and plays guitar in a cover band (The Bride and Groove) that mainly plays wedding receptions. He gave up his dreams of hitting it big as a rock star years ago, when he fell in love with an Irish woman, got married, and had a daughter. He’s mostly happy with his life. B&G is playing at a fancy wedding held in a castle, and one of the (American) groom’s best friends is a former boy-band pop star, Danny (Nick Jonas). Danny joins the group for a song, and Rick and Danny hit it off and have a great…

  • Life After Life

    Life After Life ~ Kate Atkinson Ursula Todd is born in February of 2010, but does not survive because her umbilical cord is wrapped around her neck. Then she is born in February of 2010 and she survives. She dies over and over again throughout the book, only to be born again and start over. In some realities, she has memories of past lives, and is thus able to change both her reality and those of others. She drowns, is murdered, dies from bombing in London, dies from bombing in Berlin, so many ways to die. She dies as a child and as a middle aged woman. As the story…

  • Friday Randomness

    Another week of randomness. I feel like the most random thing I saw this week was the woman in front of me in the checkout line at the grocery store, paying with a check. I remember when I used to carry my checkbook in my wallet, for decades of my life. Now the only time I write a check is to send money for birthdays or graduations, and that doesn’t always work. My bff’s son has a check from me that he’s had for about 18 months. Will he ever cash it? It’s probably lost at this point. Which reminds me, I have two graduations this spring, I’d better write…