Musings

  • Playing Hooky…

    I’m not a big believer in playing hooky…mostly I try to keep Maya in school on school days, and do our vacationing on vacation days.  If we end up going on a vacation to visit family during the school year, the school gives Maya an ‘Independent Study’ assignment, and she works on that while we’re gone.  The reason for my strictness on this has nothing, or very little, to do with my Puritan ancestors and their work ethics, and more to do with money.  I was on the school board at Maya’s school, and I know how much each absence costs the school.  If kids are sick, or out for…

  • Does Size Matter?

    Magazine covers like this one make me angry. See how Kate Winslet is talking about how she doesn’t worry about weight anymore? At the same time, see how the biggest word on the cover is DIET? Do you think Kate would approve? I don’t. I think she would be resigned to it, and know that women’s magazines generally have diet articles and how to make a cake articles and so on. I glanced at the interview with the divine Ms. Winslet (otherwise known as Autumn’s future step-mom), and she talks about eating, not dieting, being healthy, having more important things to think about than numbers on a scale, etc. I…

  • Are You a Re-Reader?

    Are there books that you’ve read so many times, you can open them to any page, randomly, and know exactly where you are in the narrative? I am definitely a re-reader, though as I write this, I’m realizing that the books I’ve read and re-read so many times are all books I had read by middle school.  Sometimes, I’m just sitting somewhere, minding my own business, and one of these books will call out to me.  I wonder, is it the writing itself, or the simplicity of the story, that makes it so easy for me to return, again and again?  What is so comforting about these books, that is…

  • 3 Day Weekend…

    It’s Monday afternoon, the weekend is almost over…why can’t every weekend be a three-day-er, I ask? Friday was plumbing and the good news that said plumbing and wall destruction will be paid by the homeowners association. LOVELY! Knew there had to be some advantage to living in a condo… Saturday was a 2-hour drive to Salinas, a chance to get to know my step-mom’s family a little better at her mom’s funeral service. The unexpected cozy feeling in my tummy when she introduced me, not as her step daughter, nor as Michael’s daughter, but just as, “My daughter”. These people were all her family, so they knew that she wasn’t…

  • Good News/Bad News

    Good News:  Though Maya has been sick pretty much since last Saturday evening, she was feeling well enough yesterday to go on a field trip with her class to the Marine Science Institute in Redwood City, about 1.5 hours from here. Bad News: Taking her was a tactical error on my part, because last night she was completely wiped out, and I’m going to keep her home again today to prevent a total relapse.  That makes three days of school she’s missed this week. Good News: It looks like we may be able to swing a slightly larger overpriced piece of California Real Estate than we currently have, a townhome…

  • Fitness Plan…

    Aerobic workout with Gilead….check High Fiber cereal with antioxident (and yummy) fresh blueberries for breakfast….check 30 minute nap added to daily schedule….check* Did you see the latest, that a 30 minute nap every afternoon, if you can manage it, is good for your heart? Here is one we’ve all been waiting for: A Harvard study has found that a regular afternoon nap could reduce the risk of cardiac death by 37 percent. First we learned that a glass of red wine is good for the heart, and now so is the midday snooze. For the wine, we have the French to thank. For the nap, we can thank the Greeks.…

  • Weekend Wrap Up

    Our weekend started off with a steak craving, thanks to Gina’s Friday Poll. Ted isn’t much of a beef eater, his red meat of choice is lamb. However, he’ll make the occasional exception for either an avocado burger at Manny’s if we happen to be in Stockton, or a good Rib Eye steak. On Friday, we decided to go out for a nice Rib Eye, and we hoped to pay a lot less than $200 for the three of us, which left out these pricey favorites. We ended up at Hungry Hunter, but were dismayed to see that the only Rib Eye on the menu was quite complex, with peppercorns…

  • Sunday Funnies

    One for Miss Cherry, because she gave Maya her vintage “My Pretty Pony” collection, so I thought she might have a laugh at this: [youtube]NEZ5kNZf-7I[/youtube] And one for Autumn’s Mom, and maybe LD as well, because of their Coach addiction: Click the comic to see it larger…

  • Friday Thoughts…

    Nothing big today… We saw the film, Proof, the other night. It was OK…not GREAT, not sucky. Mostly what I thought was that Gwenyth looks like the movie star version of my sister, Maya, which made me think of Laura Dern looking like the movie star version of me, and wondering who the movie star version of my sister, Melissa is…maybe Emily Longstreth, whom I thought looked like Melissa back in 1989, when she played Kevin Bacon’s girlfriend, Susan, in “The Big Picture”, which was a great movie, by the way. I’m not sure who else Melissa looks like. Someone, I’m sure. That got me to wondering about my brother,…

  • Microwave Update

    Well, I hope to hell that you all are wrong about the water that’s been leaking from the microwave being some kind of radioactive waste, because both Ted and I have already cleaned it up several times, with no gloves, just towels.  I put the microwave in the backyard this morning, since the counter was completely wet again this morning, and I don’t know if we can legally just throw it in the trash or not… Where do I buy a geiger counter, anyway? 

  • Calling Engineering Types…

    Has anyone ever heard of a microwave oven leaking water?  I have never heard of this, but ours definately is.  It’s not even plugged in, hasn’t been used in a day or two, but it put out a HUGE puddle.  This has happened several times, and ruined several of my cookbooks.  We’re going to trash the thing and get a new one, since it’s almost surely cheaper to buy a new one than to get this one looked at, and we’ve had it for maybe 10 years, but I think this is VERY weird.  Today, I heated up some soup on the stove at about 11:30.  The counter was dry,…

  • Scruples

      “Scruples…They are unbearable to me, because I have suffered too much from scruples…” ~ Anaïs Nin All of this talk of infidelity and morals has me thinking…thinking about how some people see the ties of marriage as a pair of shackles, see the mores of society as beneath them, as not appyling to them, because they are ‘free spirits’, and thus, somehow above it all. I try not to be judgemental of folks for the way that they choose to live their lives.  If someone wants to have an open marriage, as long as everyone knows what’s going on, OK, whatever.  If, for example,  Anaïs Nin feels stifled in her…

  • Queen Mary 2 Enters San Francisco

    Did anyone see this on the news or in person?  We didn’t go to SF to watch, but WOW, that’s a big ship.  So big she had to sail around the Cape, because she won’t fit through the Panama Canal.  Whew.  Photo courtesy the SF Chronicle, and you can find more pictures here.