• Getting to Know All About You

    Last week I shared some basic facts about myself, with a funny picture of me in my mom’s bra. Well, in order to share another picture of me in my mom’s undergarments, here’s another post. Don’t worry, there are no more. I’m not sure why I thought this was so hilarious, but clearly, I did. This picture is in my grandparents’ front yard, and you can see my grandma looking out at us through the window. My elder brother, Richard, is in the picture with me. This is in Stockton, California, before we moved to Alaska. So, what else can I tell you about me, to justify this post. Hmmm.…

  • Friday Randomness

    Will I have enough content for a post? Will I go overboard with stupid memes? Time will tell. Know what? I’ll make it a Friday 5. This week I was given a new laptop for work, which should be a simple thing, but my team uses some tools that are specific to us and are finicky, and my files weren’t transferring over to my new laptop well. So I spent a lot of time with a lovely IT guy in our Chicago office. We got to chatting a bit, as one does while waiting for processes to run, and I told him that it was raining and I was loving…

  • The Road to Tender Hearts

    The Road to Tender Hearts ~ Annie Hartnett PJ Halliday, an alcoholic hoarder who lives down the street from his best friend, who is also his ex-wife. He doesn’t need to work because he won 1.5 million in the lottery, which makes him popular at the local bar. He and his wife had 2 daughters, but the elder daughter died on her prom night many years prior, an event which contributed to his heavy drinking and the dissolution of their marriage. Pancakes is a strangely prescient cat who has the ability to know when someone is going to die. When he senses their imminent demise, he goes to them, so they…

  • The Guest

    The Guest ~ Emma Cline Alex is a 22 year old professional sex worker from New York who seems to have found herself an actual boyfriend, 50 something year old Simon. They are spending the month of August in his beautiful home in the Hamptons, where he works by day and has parties with business acquaintances many evenings, and Alex occupies her time swimming and going to the beach. At a party one evening, Alex fails to conform to Simon’s standards, flirting with another guest rather than stick by his side, and he asks her to leave, to go back to her apartment in New York. But she no longer…

  • The Joy Luck Club

    The Joy Luck Club ~ Amy Tan / Film Version Fearless Leader Engie recently hosted her Cool Bloggers Book Club, and the chosen book was Amy Tan’s The Joy Luck Club. Because I am sometimes this way, I went all in. I read the physical copy before bed at night. I listened to the audio version via my Libby app. I watched the movie once I had finished the book. I love this all immersive experience. I did the same thing with My Brilliant Friend and the rest of that engrossing series. Read. Listen. Watch. Love. For The Joy Luck Club, I would say that my preference was for the…

  • Belly in San Francisco

    Saturday was what Ted called our ‘culture day’. We started our day going to the talk for Percival Everett, where he spoke of his novel, James. After that we went to lunch, then home for a few hours, then to San Francisco for the evening. Our lunch had been a little on the late side, but we were a bit hungry, so we had a light dinner at a Mediterranean restaurant on Fillmore Street. Then on to the main event, a concert at the Great American Music Hall to see 90s indie group, Belly. Belly’s album, King, is 30 years old, and they are touring in celebration. The show was…

  • James

    James ~ Percival Everett James is an enslaved man on a plantation in Missouri on the Mississippi River. He lives there with his wife and daughter, and he teaches the children on the plantation how to stay as safe as possible in the presence of white people. How to code speak, avoid eye contact, play dumb, pretend to be superstitious, that kind of thing. There are two white boys, Huckleberry “Huck” Finn and Tom Sawyer, who like to play pranks on James, and he pretends to be frightened or worried or whatever will make them happy. When James learns that he is to be sold, he runs away, hoping to…

  • Getting to Know You

    Some of my blogging friends have had the good idea to post a getting to know you type post, for new readers due to NaBloPoMo. So, here are a few things about me. How about you? What is your perfect day?

  • Friday Randomness

    Let’s see if I regret using up several random type items in one post during NaBloPoMo. I have a couple more recipes and book reviews for you, so we’ll see what happens after that. For now, I will keep today’s post to 5 items. One of our local Little Free Libraries has been converted to a food pantry for those losing SNAP benefits due to the government shutdown. I hate this. I mean, it’s a great idea, but I hate that it’s come to this. Thankfully, my county is handing out pre-loaded debit cards to folks that get SNAP, so at least there’s that. My decluttering project continues. I gave…

  • Sweet Potatoes with Curried Lentils

    Sometimes it is really, really difficult to figure out what the heck to make for dinner. Thankfully, Suzanne searches the internet for inspiration, and then posts about her ideas for what they might eat. She recently linked to this recipe, which is originally vegan, though I used yogurt instead of coconut milk near the end. I think you could use regular milk or something else instead of coconut milk in the lentils as well, if you don’t want to buy a can and then only use 1/2 cup. I didn’t like throwing away the rest of the can but wasn’t sure I would use the rest of it. I think…

  • Photo of the Day

    Normally this picture would not warrant its own post, but I did say that my posts might get a little random during NaBloPoMo, right? So here we are. We live very close to a rapid transit station (BART), and you can see the mailbox in the background, which is where I mail letters and postcards and such. Yesterday I had a couple of things to mail, so I stopped by on my morning walk. Then I came across this tableau. A brand new walker, tag still attached, leaning against a bench. What’s the story? Does the fact that it appears to be wet underneath the bench mean anything? Was someone…

  • Upcoming Reads and Foux du Fafa

    Sunday, Maya and I went to the Rockridge neighborhood of Oakland to Foux du Fafa around. That is what we call it when we want to just walk around a neighborhood, maybe have a meal or a drink, do some window shopping, etc. Our more specific goal for this day was for Maya to see the temporary location of one of our favorite bookstores, as they are in the process of rebuilding their old location that was destroyed in a fire last year. We started out with lunch at a pub with a nice outdoor patio. We enjoyed watching a dad party (4 young dads with their babies) and several…

  • Wave

    Wave ~ Sonali Deraniyagala A woman, her husband, their kids, her parents, her friend and her friend’s mom are vacationing in Sri Lanka, where she grew up, in late December, 2004. Looking from the hotel window, she can see that something is wrong with the ocean. At first she is curious, then she realizes that something is very wrong, and she and her husband grab the kids and start to run. They run past her parents’ hotel room without stopping to warn them, and they make it to a jeep, where they pile in and drive for safety. The tsunami wave overtakes their car and they are separated. She is…

  • Salmon Farro Bowl with Honey Mustard Dressing

    For NaBloPoMo, I may decide to do some kind of ‘getting to know you’ post soon for new readers, but this is not that post. Instead, this is a very lazy post, a recipe for a delicious meal we recently enjoyed. It seems pretty adaptable. Don’t like salmon? Sub in another fish, chicken, or even tofu. Don’t like mustard? Try a dressing you do like. Want to add tomatoes, like I did? Go for it. We really enjoyed this meal, it will be making a reappearance soon. Original recipe here. Salmon and Farro Bowl with Honey Mustard Dressing Ingredients Directions Preheat oven to 425°F. Bring water, farro, and 1 teaspoon…

  • Mixing it Up

    Earlier this year, I had a bone density scan, and was diagnosed with osteopenia. Not a shock, my grandmother broke her hip at 40, and I think I had osteopenia the first time I had a bone density scan almost 20 years ago. But now that I’m approaching 60, I’m finally getting a bit more serious about things I should have been doing for the last 20 – 30 years. Mostly that means being consistent about strength training. Last November, I started doing Caroline Girvan trainings 5 days a week. I’ve chosen the 15 to 20 minute workouts, and mostly I used 5 lb hand weights, though I have increased…