• I Who Have Never Known Men

    I Who Have Never Known Men ~ Jacqueline Harpman, Translated from French by Ros Schwartz The unnamed protagonist of I Who Have Never Known Men has no memory of life outside of the underground bunker where she lives imprisoned with 39 other women. They were all adults when they were captured, but she was a baby and was raised by them. They have no idea why they are here, the only interaction with other human beings is with the harsh guards who watch over them, bring them food, and prevent them from breaking any of their arbitrary rules. Then one day, while the guard has the keys in the lock…

  • Good Dirt

    Good Dirt ~ Charmaine Wilkerson Ebony (Ebby) Freeman is 10 years old when she is witness to a home invasion gone wrong, where her 15 year old brother, Baz, is shot and killed. Because her family is one of very few wealthy Black families in a tony Connecticut neighborhood, the crime is the subject of a lot of media attention. Whenever Ebby meets someone new, she waits for that realization of who she is to dawn on them, for the pity and curiosity to make itself known. We first meet her almost 20 years later, when her (white) well to do fiancé ghosts her on their wedding day. 9 months later,…

  • Vera Wong’s Guide to Snooping (on a Dead Man)

    Vera Wong’s Guide to Snooping (On a Dead Man) ~ Jesse Sutanto Vera Wong is back in this sequel to Vera Wong’s Unsolicited Advice for Murderers, and I couldn’t be happier. A year after Vera came downstairs in her San Francisco Chinatown tea shop and found a dead man, her life has new meaning. She has a group of found family, young people who were actually her suspects in that murder, and her son Tilly is living with Selena, the detective who was working on that case. Her shop is bustling. But she is bored and needs a challenge. If only another person would end up dead so she could…

  • Friday Randomness

    Fighting the Good Fight – Overheard at a recent protest in our fair city…mom walking with 2 young kids. One of them asks what the people are doing, making so much noise and carrying signs. “They’re fighting for your freedom.” OMG, that brought a tear to my eyes and made me feel like showing up every Saturday is definitely worth my time. Pie Shop – I forgot to mention in my post on Oceanside that we saw this little pie shop, which is in the house where Kelly McGillis’s character lived in the original Top Gun film. There is a large military base nearby, Camp Pendleton, so Top Gun seems…

  • 32 Years!

    Happy Anniversary to us! It feels unreal to me that we’ve been married 32 years now, that we’ve been together for over 37 years. I look at our wedding pictures, and goodness, we look young. I was 27 the year we got married, which didn’t feel particularly young at the time, but does to me now. Ted took the week off from work, and I have both today and tomorrow as company holidays this year, so we won’t have to go to work. What will we do with ourselves? We have tickets to go to one of the fine art museums, which has an exhibit of photographs by Paul McCartney.…

  • The One About the Cruise

    It’s finally time to tell you about the cruise I went on with my cousins! They are a private bunch, so while I will use their names (less confusing that way, and none are rare names) I will not be sharing photos of them. Unfortunate, because they’re a good looking crew. The cast are: Ethan – I mention him first, because in their family, each kid gets a trip with at least one parent as a gift for their 16th birthday. His sisters went on the offered trip, but Ethan thought outside of the box and said he wanted a trip with the whole family, and they said yes. Kim…

  • One Thing a Day

    A few years ago, I saw an article in The New Yorker by Ann Patchett, How to Practice (subscription needed, sorry) where she tells of being motivated by the death of a close friend’s father, and the task of going through his things, to declutter her own home, getting rid of things she had been hanging onto for too long. Some of them had a lot of meaning, but she realized that she didn’t need to hang on to them forever. Some of them were beautiful things, but she wasn’t using them. Then a few weeks ago, Elisabeth had a post in which she described helping her parents to declutter,…

  • A Few Days in Oceanside

    My cousin Carey and her wife live in Oceanside, half way between San Diego and Orange County. When she invited me to go with her on the cruise to Mexico, she also invited me to come down a few days early to see Oceanside and San Diego. The last time I was in San Diego was 1988, and I had never been to Oceanside, so I jumped at the chance. While Carey has lived in Southern California for 11 years, she has never been to the Hotel Del Coronado, and has always wanted to see it from the inside. The Coronado is a beautiful beach resort in San Diego with…

  • Tacos 4 Ways

    I had a lovely time in SoCal with my cousin, then on our cruise to Mexico with my other cousin (her sister) and her family. I have a bigger post in mind, but I’ve been home an entire week and haven’t managed to put that together, and I’ve barely managed to start coming by your blogs, so for now I will whet your appetite by showing you the tacos we ate. Tacos – I love tacos, and enjoyed the many opportunities I had to enjoy them closer to and in Mexico. Living in California, we get really good tacos here, but it seemed like a good opportunity to try them…

  • Friday Randomness

    This week’s randomness is pretty random. Silly, sad, poignant, all of the feelings and things. Spotted at Total Wine in the check out aisle. Don’t worry, if Pinot is not your thing, they had a white and a rose as well. Spotted on my morning walk. It’s not really watermelon season yet, but here we are. This is the same area where the woman with the cat on her shoulder was a few weeks ago. The other day I was listening to my local NPR station, to a locally produced show, Forum. It’s a discussion and call in show, and this episode was about rivers as living beings. In the…

  • Go As A River

    Go As A River ~ Shelley Read After Victoria “Torie” Nash’s mother, aunt, and cousin are killed in a car accident, she is left behind as the ‘woman of the house’ at her family peach orchard in Colorado with her father, her brother, and her uncle. Her father has changed since losing his wife, he is despondent and angry. Her brother, Seth, has always been a cruel bully, and without their mother’s stern discipline, he becomes more so. Her uncle is an angry man who came home from WWII in a wheel chair, and depends upon his family to care for him. Go As A River begins when Torie is…

  • Sinners

    Sinners is a tale of monsters, both supernatural and immorally human, that takes place in the early 1930s Jim Crow south. Identical twins Smoke and Stack (Michael B. Jordan), veterans of WWI, return to Mississippi from Chicago, where they’ve been working with the likes of Al Capone. Their dream is to open a juke joint in an abandoned warehouse, and they have the savings to get it done. They come to town and hire a crew of locals, including cooks, grocers, musicians, a bouncer. Their young cousin, Preacher Boy (Miles Caton) dreams of playing guitar and singing, and after hearing of his talent playing a famous guitar, they invite him…

  • Dream Count

    Dream Count ~ Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie Dream Count is told from the point of view of four African women, three are wealthy and successful women from Nigeria, one is a hotel employee from Ghana. Chiamaka is a travel writer from a wealthy Nigerian family, and as the book begins she is in the lockdown part of the pandemic, and is considering her shitty taste in men. Zikora is a successful lawyer, and her section begins as she is in labor, attended by her mother, the baby’s father nowhere in sight. Omelogor is Chiamaka’s cousin, a former banker, now intellectual studying how pornography is currently teaching youth unrealistic lessons about sex.…

  • Friday Randomness

    A Mystery SolvedBirchie and I had some delicious ice cream after our evening snack last week, at Salt and Straw. Birchie had the Sea Salt with Caramel Ribbons (I’m 80% sure), and I had the Coffee and Love Nuts (coffee ice cream with chocolate covered pecans – delicious!) I paid using the credit card I always use for restaurants, because it gives me 3 points per dollar spent. I requested a paper receipt, as I generally do, because I don’t want to sign up for more emails, but I do want a receipt in case something goes wrong. When I got home and checked my email, I saw that I…

  • Cucumber-Avocado Salad

    This recipe popped up in my Facebook feed yesterday, and I decided to give it a try. I served it with bbq grilled chicken, fruit salad, and potato salad. Maya didn’t want bbq fake chicken, so she had a frozen pizza instead, but she had some of the salad and really enjoyed it. The avocados at the grocery store yesterday were either really overripe or barely ripe, and I went with barely ripe. My avocado didn’t break down and get glossy, but the overripe ones would have been black in the middle. I used lime juice instead of lemon or rice vinegar, and I probably could have been a bit…