• Friday Randomness

    Apparently I’m blogging every day in April. This was not intentional at first, but once I got to the middle of the month, I figured, ‘In for a Penny, In for a Pound’. Now that I’m near the end of the month, but not quite there, the suspense is growing. Will I make it? Will I find enough content? Time will tell. One thing I could do would be to NOT do Friday Randomness, and instead take each of these little tidbits and make each its own blogpost. Nah. I didn’t take any pictures of last Saturday’s protest, but it was well attended (between 1,700 and 2,000). I have clicked…

  • On Unicorns

    Last week I ranted a bit about how unicorns have horns, and do not have wings. I feel strongly about this. Both Maya and Suzanne mentioned the term ‘alicorn’ which I had never heard before, but which I like a lot more than lumping a singular horse god (Pegasus) into a mythical species. It would be like saying ‘a Poseidon’ is a species, or ‘a Zeus’. Anyway, I looked up alicorn, and found these admittedly pretty yet historically problematic examples. I’m working on opening my mind a smidge. I know, I said historically problematic about a mythical creature. I’m ridiculous. I love this statue, the ‘alicorn’ is beautiful and is…

  • Birthday Girls

    Today my mom would have been 83, had she not died too young at the age of 66 in 2008. Today my Great Aunt Flo would have been 101, had she not died at the ripe old age of 100 last year. This is my mom when she was a little girl, with her Shirley Temple curls in her red hair. And here she is in college. She went to UC Berkeley, though she dropped out for a while. After she married, had my brother (six days after getting married), had me, and got divorced (I think her divorce became final on my day of birth, but I’m not 100%…

  • Notes on Your Sudden Disappearance

    Notes on Your Sudden Disappearance ~ Alison Espach Sally and Kathy are teenaged sisters in small town Connecticut. Kathy is a few years older than Sally, she is finishing her Junior Year of High School while Sally is finishing up 7th grade. Both girls have been obsessed with Billy Barnes, graduating senior and basketball star, since he jumped off the school roof a few years prior. Eventually Kathy starts dating Billy, leaving Sally behind. In Notes on Your Sudden Disappearance, Sally is telling Kathy the story of her life and everything that has transpired, from the vantage point of 15 years in the future. This is a story of profound…

  • Money Monday

    Kyria had a post last week where she discussed her budget and spending for the first quarter of the year, while she’s been traveling in Western Europe. She’s within a few dollars of her budget (or would be if she hadn’t had to buy a new phone and laptop, one time expenditures), and is doing well. She asked if people budget when they travel, and I said no, I spend what I spend, and she then asked if I budget in my day-to-day life. The answer again, no, not really. Then Elisabeth had a post about how she keeps her grocery bill under control. Which got me to thinking about…

  • Playing with ChatGPT

    The other day, a friend posted a ChatGPT generated picture of her horse as a human on Facebook. Immediately I wanted to see what Mulder would look like as a human, so I went to ChatGPT and tried to load a photo. You have to have an account (free). So I signed up for an account, but instead of loading a photo, I asked it to show me what a Keeshond would look like as a human. Chat asked me if I wanted male/female/androgynous, and I said androgynous. It asked for personality, and I said kind of loud. This is what I got. I love the grey hair, which matches…

  • Three Days in June

    Three Days in June ~ Anne Tyler Three Days in June is the story of Gail Baines, who is fired the day before her daughter’s wedding (or maybe she quits, it’s one of those conversations). Her ex-husband, Max, is in town for the wedding and shows up unannounced to stay with her, bringing a rescue cat that he hopes she will want to adopt. In the span of three days, secrets come out, new wounds are inflicted, old wounds are healed. Gail is the standard prickly character that you will find in an Anne Tyler novel. She has feelings and thoughts, she just doesn’t express them. When she sees her…

  • Friday Randomness

    In addition to many wonderful signs, I saw this wonderful FDT (Fuck Donald Trump) t-shirt at last week’s rally. So pretty, right? I also liked the ‘Turd Reich’ sign. This is not my photo, I took it from our congress member’s FB page. He comes to the rallies when he is in town. He’s in the center front of this photo, with his back to the camera. The rally was much smaller than the previous Saturday’s Hands Off rally, but that was to be expected. Still about 1,000 people came out. Tomorrow is more rallies, 2 around here, and I have to decide if I want go to both or…

  • The Girl Who Was Taken

    The Girl Who Was Taken ~ Charlie Donlea Megan and Nicole are two High School students, graduating students from different friend groups who disappear one night from the same party. Megan escapes their abductor 2 weeks later, but Nicole is gone. Gone gone. Nicole’s sister, Livia is a forensic pathology fellow working to become a coroner. A year after the abduction, a body is found in a lake that Livia feels must somehow be connected to her sister, and she works with Megan to try to solve the mystery. This book was recommended to me, and I have mixed feelings about it. On the one hand, it was pretty riveting,…

  • Spotted Photos – Yellow

    Sculpture at top of this post: Aspiring to Pumpkin’s Love, The Love in My Heart – Yayoi Kusama When iHanna announced that the April theme for her Spotted Photo Challenge would be ‘Yellow’, I thought, oh, I don’t think I have many yellow photos, this is going to be quick. Wrong. I have a ton. You’re going to get photos of Maya, Mulder, France, food, and flowers. Maybe a few other things too. Ready? Here’s Maya at her first birthday party, held in a local park, where we had friends, family, pizza, and cake. It was a beautiful day. Here she is in Juneau, Alaska! We’re visiting my mom, my…

  • Money Monday – Update

    Update on my new PayPal Debit Card – Happily, I was right, you can select the same category for earnings every month. You have to wait until the first of the month, so I set a reminder on my phone for the first of every month, so I don’t forget. From April 1 to April 13, I spent $477.48 on groceries*, and I earned $23.87 in cash back. I’ve been thinking about the money that I earn, and decided that I would like to keep this money separate from other money. So I could leave it in PayPal, or I could put it in another account. I have a high…

  • Dinner at Millennium

    For Maya’s birthday, we went to dinner at her favorite restaurant, Millennium, which is a renowned vegan restaurant in Oakland. This is our third time there, though she has been more times with her friends. The food is elevated and elegant, the flavors complex. The atmosphere is casual. I recommend sitting outside on the covered patio, inside is quite loud. It was chilly when we were there, but they had heaters and blankets to keep you comfortable. Ready for some food pics? The menu on Fridays and Saturdays is a 4 course prix fixe. The first course is a light appetizer to share, then you choose the next three courses.…

  • Salmon with Mustardy French Lentils

    This is the salmon dish we had for dinner one night last week, and again this week. The salmon was good, but basic, just salt and pepper and sauté in a pan with a little olive oil. The star of this dish is the lentils, which are mustardy and so good. The original recipe calls for a can of Puy lentils, but I used 1 cup of dried French green lentils (which stay a little firmer and have better flavor than regular brown lentils, I think). I cooked them until tender, and then drained them. Then I used them as though they were the canned type. Because I used so…

  • Friday Randomness

    Here I was thinking likely I wouldn’t have anything to share with you this week, but then along came life and I have some content. Mostly good this week, so that’s good. First off, the picture above is a little hummingbird (or maybe a big hummingbird, I don’t know) at the feeder outside our kitchen window one autumn. The other night I went outside for a minute and saw it on the ground. The top, where the hook holds the feeder, is plastic, and after many years of service, it gave way and broke. Did something hit it (Bird? Squirrel?), or was it just time? I don’t know. Anyway, I’ll…